Rev Jeep's Marital Questionnaire

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!! I am pleased to be able to guide you through your marriage ceremony.

This questionnaire helps me, as your minister or wedding officiate, to better understand you individually and as a couple, your processes and your relationship with each other. These questions guide me in constructing your vows and ceremony, using language that is suitable and appropriate to you.

These questions also raise questions that may or may not have been discussed with each other. Please answer this questionnaire individually and separately, and then electronically send them back to me as soon as possible so I may review, respond and begin crafting your ceremony!

Thank you for taking the time to answer the questionnaire.

If you'd rather download and fill out, click here to access the form. Forms can be sent to Rev. Jeep via email.

Name

First Name

Last Name

Email Address

Phone

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How would you like to be addressed?

Date, time and location of wedding?

What kind of wedding would you like?

i.e. Non-traditional? Groomsmen or Bridesmaids in attendance? Asking if anyone objects? Guest participation? A lot or a little?

How do you see my participation in your ceremony?

A lot? A little?

Will there be a rehearsal? If so, when and where?

How long do you want the ceremony to be?

Do you have a faith tradition that you practice or have interest in?

Any faith tradition ritual you would like to include in your ceremony?  Do you want rituals that I or we can create for symbolic purposes?

What elements would you want to include?

i.e. exchanging a kiss at end of ceremony? Exchanging rings? Breaking a glass? Other ideas? I can offer other possbilities. 

Now let’s go deeper into your vows. What does marriage mean to you?

Do you have a clear Idea what this promise means to you?

What are your expectations of marriage?

Do you want children? How will you care for them? What about child rearing and parenting styles? What if there are challenges with schooling, etc? How will you resolve differences should they arise?

What about family and/or relatives? Will you care for them, need be? How will you handle these developments? What if that undertaking goes beyond your imagination?

What if one of you should become ill? Have you discussed how you will handle this possibility?

What about finances? Do you have a plan for financial stability? Do you plan to or do you have all papers in place, i.e. wills, trusts etc.?  Do you have a plan when that might happen? Have you a system in place for sharing/splitting your finances?

Any other information that I should know about your wedding or relationship? How long are you together? How did you meet? Why marriage now? Who asked whom to marry? In addition to loving them, what is it about each other that you want to marry them?

Any questions for me?

How would you like for me to be dressed? Tie or no tie? Clergy Collar?

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